Tired of gossips
Some would say, if you don’t enjoy gossips something is probably wrong with you. In that case, maybe something is wrong with me. I just don’t enjoy sitting around all day talking shit about someone else’s life. Everyone makes their share of mistakes. And of course mistakes are followed by consequences. Some people obviously don’t understand that.
I love being in the know about what’s going on in everyones lives. But there is a difference in talking about what everyones been up to and straight up shit talking. Sometimes people just happen to hit a gray area in their life, and you shouldn’t punish them by adding your negative thoughts to make it sound much more dramatic than it really is. At their lowest point you should be encouraging them and lifting them, not put them down by pointing your finger at them and forming a crowd of hate.
Sure maybe you’re terrible at expressing your feelings too, but sometimes it’s best not to say anything than to say something hurtful. Especially if you are the one person they need to hear encouragement from the most.
Recently I’ve found myself to be overwhelmed by gossips. Don’t get me wrong, I understand everyone thinks differently. And it could just be this person’s opinion, but how could you be spilling so many negative information about the people closest to you? I’d like to believe that its the difference in generation that caused them to see things the way they do, but for this person to continuously degrading someone and talking in such hateful ways, its intolerable.
It saddens me that this person probably never have and never will have anything nice to say about the people that loves her. And it hurts to be afraid to get close to this person because I simply can’t stand the gossips lol.